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10 DATING AND RELATIONSHIP SECRETS FOR MEN |
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- If you have just come out of a relationship give yourself time to reflect on your behaviours and heal. Don’t rush into another relationship to prevent the pain and emptiness from surfacing, as rebound relationships have a high failure rate. Think about what thoughts and behaviours you need to change to get a different result next time round.
- Remember first impressions count when you are meeting women. Watch your body language. Put your shoulders back and stand proud and confident. Be real and self assured without being cocky and arrogant. Just relax and have fun.
- Never say “I will meet you there” when starting to date a woman, (except for the first “getting to know you coffee”, at the woman’s request, or when there are unusual circumstances), as you will lose mega points before you even get to first base.
- Don’t rush in and say “I love you” and be over the top with compliments when you first start dating a woman. Pace yourself and keep some mystery and tension. Besides, the lust you feel may vanish quickly if you suddenly realize you have nothing in common with this woman. Never build up a woman’s hopes and play with her heart before you know how you really feel about her.
- Don’t play the perfect gentleman with all the romantic games of love, compliments and relationship potential just for sexual favours, then suddenly disappear in the morning, in a week, or in a month with no explanation or future contact. This is manipulative, cold and calculating, and a cruel way to treat women. Never play with a woman’s emotions and heart for your own selfish motives and hidden agendas.
- Don’t take your date, girlfriend or partner to the movies and go to sleep during the show. If you are really tired suggest another day or night.
- If you take your girlfriend or partner for breakfast or lunch, never spend a large part of the time you have together reading the paper or talking on the phone, as this will be very hurtful. Value these times and see them as opportunities for deep caring conversation. Remember, conversation is one of the main inroads to a woman’s heart.
- If you are watching something unimportant on television, don’t throw the woman’s desire for conversation to the side for the sake of a minor television show. If it is an important programme, ask her if it can wait, as you would like to finish watching the program. If it can wait, be caring enough to tell her that you will be right there for her in the ad breaks, or when the program finishes. Always acknowledge her, otherwise she will feel hurt and dismissed. If it is something urgent be prepared to sacrifice the program.
- Whether newly dating or in a relationship do not be aloof and secretive about where you are going, or the things you are doing day to day. You do not need to share every minute detail, but if you want your relationship to last you will need to share your life and your friends with your woman so that she doesn’t feel excluded and left out in the cold.
- When you are in a relationship, regularly tell your partner how gorgeous she looks. Compliment her on the things she does for you and her wonderful attributes. Do this no matter how long you have been together. These words however must come from your heart with genuine intent, or it is a waste of time saying them.
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Jane Roder is a published author of self help relationship books and ebooks . She holds a Diploma of Education, a Certificate in Counseling and Psychotherapy and is an Accredited Life Coach. Jane provides help and advice on dating and relationship problems. She is an invited speaker at seminars and corporate events and is the author of “101 Ways to Win a Woman's Heart” (published by Pennon), “How to Find Your Soul Mate”, “How to Achieve a Successful Separation & Divorce”, and “77 Secrets to Dynamic Relationships” which are available as Dating & Relationship eBooks . Apart from her books, Jane offers free dating help and relationship help , seminars, phone/internet consulting teaching people how to heal their lives and their relationships “from the inside out” (by raising individual's emotional and spiritual intelligence). Jane can be contacted via her website www.relationship-remedies.com.
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