Are you willing to commit 100% emotionally, physically and spiritually to the right person? (This does not have to mean marriage).
Are you happy with yourself and your life without a partner?
Can you go without sex for several weeks if necessary?
Can you spend periods of time on your own or do you go from one partner to another?
Do you suffer from claustrophobia?
Are you happy and fulfilled by your work?
Are you happy with the relationships you have with your friends?
Are your finances on track?
Have you let go of all emotional attachment to any significant past relationship?
Have you healed all emotional pain from any previous relationships e.g. anger, guilt?
If you have been in a relationship, have you completed all financial settlements?
Have you filed for divorce if you were married?
Have you given up being your parent’s child - needing to please them or rebel against them?
Do you know what sort of partner you are looking for (in detail)?
Do you know how to screen potential partners?
Do you have goals and a vision for your life in the future?
Have you taken time out from relationships to get to know yourself better - to reflect on how you contributed to the downfall of your last relationship, and how you could deal with things better next time?
Have you read relationship books and/or attended personal development courses in order to create a more effective relationship next time round?
Are you prepared to put some time into the mating game?
Are you ready to create a new future - to let go of the past, and past patterns?
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Yes Scores
1 - 13 You are not ready for a relationship. Complete unfinished business and consider emailing me for counseling/coaching.
14-18 You are almost ready. Consider buying my e-workbook to gain some insights into yourself, and/or phone me to clear the areas that you still need to do some work on.
19 - 20 Well done! If you have been brutally honest with yourself you are ready. Consider buying “The Secrets to Finding Your Soul Mate e-workbook" (CLICK HERE for more) to see how well you really know yourself. You may be surprised. Email me for extra support and coaching if necessary and good luck with love!!
Jane Roder is a published author of self help relationship books and ebooks . She holds a Diploma of Education, a Certificate in Counseling and Psychotherapy and is an Accredited Life Coach. Jane provides help and advice on dating and relationship problems. She is an invited speaker at seminars and corporate events and is the author of “101 Ways to Win a Woman's Heart” (published by Pennon), “How to Find Your Soul Mate”, “How to Achieve a Successful Separation & Divorce”, and “77 Secrets to Dynamic Relationships” which are available as Dating & Relationship eBooks . Apart from her books, Jane offers free dating help and relationship help , seminars, phone/internet consulting teaching people how to heal their lives and their relationships “from the inside out” (by raising individual's emotional and spiritual intelligence). Jane can be contacted via her website www.relationship-remedies.com
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